Messages from Spirit: Your attitude and positive mindset is still very important. Especially if you are having difficulty keeping a good attitude, consider who you surround yourself with and who your friends are. Do you have positive people in your midst, or are you surrounded by overly critical, fault-finding people who complain and nitpick you to the point where you’re even less able to function well? Take stock, then take action. Life is short, and attitudes are catching. This reminds you, again, that no matter what it looks like on the surface, you are not truly trapped. Even if you are literally in jail, they cannot constrain your spirit, your soul, or your mind. Use the freedom you have. Any situation that may seem to be trapping us is an illusion; we always have options, help is always available. Look deeper at a situation, and not necessarily to “go with” the surface appearance. Things may not be nearly as bad as they seem. We are reminded to stay clear on the fact that life can turn on a dime, and sometimes those “turns” are very positive. You may be feeling as though you are out of control right now. The first step is always to take some deep breaths and calm down. And then, it will be helpful to take action, take whatever steps you can to give yourself the feeling, however slight, of “being in control.” Even if that is merely making a choice on what you are going to have for dinner. Small steps are important, too. Do not look on this as a negative.
With Work: This is an important time to realize that any job that claims to be “permanent” and secure in this day and age is unfortunately unlikely to be so secure forever. This does not have to be a bad thing, information and knowledge is power, and knowing that you have options is a far more powerful mental place to “be” than feeling like you must stay in a situation forever because you think it is secure and protective. Far too many people in recent years have seen the benefits etc., and promised pensions are taken away at the stroke of a judges’ pen. Yes, you must do your own part, but security comes from within, not from out there in the world. If you are in an unhappy job situation which you are enduring because of the “security,” stay aware that this is a choice that you are making, nothing has been foisted upon you. If you don’t feel the trade-off is worth your unhappiness, start putting out feelers and giving thought to what you can do to change the situation. You are not trapped unless you allow yourself to be trapped. There are always, always options of one sort or another.
In Love: Trouble could be vaguely brewing if you are in a long-term romantic relationship. One or both of you may be beginning to feel as though they are trapped in the situation. The time will be coming soon where you may need to try to talk about it if you want to save the relationship. If you’re seeking love, give some consideration as to whether or how much you may be feeling “trapped” in single-hood and do your best to make peace with your situation and who you are, where you are, right now, today. An aura of grasping for love will make nearly any sane potential partner run for the hills. Clinging and desperate people are universally unattractive to healthy partners. Make sure you are not in that mode. Consider taking a break from your dating.
Finances: Things may be or get very tight financially in the near future. It will be important to try not to resent the situation, but to deal calmly and rationally with it. Take things one step at a time. Whatever your situation, it is a safe bet that it will not be permanent. If you need financial help, don’t be afraid or too proud to ask for it. Help is always available.
Health: The potential stress levels indicated things are not quite as serious. Even so, this is a time that you need to watch out for being overworked, overtired, and over-stressed. Exercise will help, as will anything that draws you “out of yourself” rather than staying focused on your own problems. You are only as hamstrung by health issues—at least in the mental and emotional sense—as you allow yourself to be. Push for improvement, yet don’t torture yourself because of the physical limitations that you have. It is what it is.